Bachelorettes, birthdays, or just a juicy night in — we’ll bring the heat.

🎉 Host a pleasure-positive educational sex toy party — The Steam Room brings the vibes, the toys, AND the education.

From bachelorettes to birthday hangs to girls’ nights in, we bring a curated collection of body-safe sex toys, local self-care products, juicy knowledge, and a whole lot of laughter. You set the mood, we bring the spark.

✨ Based in Nanaimo and Serving The Comox Valley to The Cowichan Valley — let’s make your next event deliciously memorable!

Travel fees apply outside of Nanaimo, but trust us — the steam is always worth it.

👉 Email us now to start planning your Steam Room Social.

What Socials Are All About

At The Steam Room, we open up unfiltered, stigma-free conversations about bodies, boundaries, desire, and everything in between.

We believe women deserve more than just the basics when it comes to sexual health — they deserve real knowledge, confidence, and full permission to explore pleasure without shame. Period.

Steam Room Socials are here to leave you walking away feeling EMPOWERED with the tools, tips, and toys to feel confident AF in and out of the bedroom!

Come as you are. Leave a little louder, a little freer, and a lot more you.

💌 Ready to Turn Up the Heat?

To inquire about booking a social or party, just shoot us an email — we’ll help you make it unforgettable!

Social Pricing

The base price for a Steam Room Social is $200, covering up to 4 guests. Each additional guest is $30.

What's In It For You?

This isn’t your high school sex-ed class. And while we're on the subject, when is the last time you got ANY sex-ed as an adult?—this is a space where curiosity is celebrated and shame has no seat at the table. When you attend a Steam Room Social, you’ll:

💪 Get Knowledge That Empowers You:
Access evidence-based, inclusive insights about sexual health, pleasure, and anatomy—so you can make decisions that feel right for you, not just what you were taught to expect.

🧘‍♀️ Deepen Your Connection to Your Body:
Explore the parts of yourself that deserve understanding and care. From anatomy to arousal, you’ll gain clarity about how your body works and what it needs to thrive.

👄 Cultivate Confidence and Language:
Learn how to talk about desire, boundaries, and pleasure without blushing or second-guessing yourself. Because owning your voice is part of owning your experience.

💞 Feel Seen, Heard, and Supported:
Share stories, ask the questions you’ve been holding onto, and discover you’re not alone. Expect bottomless laughter, real talk, and maybe a few lightbulb moments.

💫 Leave With Tools (and Permission) to Claim Your Pleasure:
Walk away not just with information, but with the confidence to trust your body, explore your desires, and create experiences rooted in safety, autonomy, and joy

Social Add-Ons

Looking to turn up the heat and add an extra confidence booster? 

At The Steam Room, we offer an optional add-on mini boudoir shoot with one of our trusted local photographers, Brooke, of Captured Essence Photography. It’s a chance to celebrate your body, capture your confidence, and leave with photos that are as bold, beautiful, and badass as you are.

Whether it’s your first time in front of the camera or you're ready to strut, this add-on is all about empowerment, not perfection.

For a $199 investment in a steamy teaser session, you will get:

🔥 A private 15 minute photoshoot

🔥 5–15 curated images to choose from

🔥 Your top 3 favorite images (digital) included in your package with the option to purchase additional images if you just can’t pick (because damn, you look good!)

Spice It Up!